Have you felt like you just wanted to tell someone to stop behaving a certain way, to change a certain habit or just simply go away, because what and how they were doing just irritated you on some level?
Or how about feeling embarrassed by someone in your life and distanced yourself from them, or at least you wanted to?
It is hard to admit but that is how I felt for a couple of days being around some family. I found myself irritated and annoyed by someone’s behavior, habits and ways of being and it took me everything not to correct or direct them to change things. It took everything in me not to openly Judge them! I felt ashamed and embarrassed being around them and being seen with them.
“This is not ok”, I thought, because I love this person and I have so much to be thankful for for them. So as I meditated I asked for guidance and I realized that the things (their behavior, habits, choices and responses) I was feeling irritated about were the very same things I dislike or used to dislike about myself, the things I worked on changing and learning from. I realized that they are being a mirror for me and an opportunity to release judgment about my life, about past mistake and choices, and practice gratitude and self-love.
Everyone is a mirror and they are there in the moment to help us grow, heal and transform our lives, bust most importantly, our beliefs.
Take a look in the mirror and ask for guidance with the lesson you are to receive. Sit and listen for the purpose of that emotions you are feeling and allow it to heal your life from the deepest part of your being.
And most importantly: count your blessings and express your gratitude. Even to those who caused you harm, because as hard it is to believe, those experiences has the most powerful gifts.
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